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The Trust Gap: Rebuilding Belief in Yourself

Dr. Kaan Celebi Season 3 Episode 24

Summary

In this conversation, Kaan Celebi explores the concept of the 'trust gap,' which refers to the growing distance between our intentions and actions, leading to self-doubt and a lack of belief in our capabilities. He discusses the origins of this gap, often rooted in childhood experiences, and emphasizes the importance of rebuilding self-trust through small, consistent promises to oneself. By focusing on manageable commitments and celebrating small wins, individuals can gradually close the trust gap and foster a stronger sense of self-belief and confidence.

Takeaways

  • The trust gap is the space between your intentions and actions.
  • Repeatedly failing to follow through leads to self-doubt.
  • The fear of disappointing yourself can hinder progress.
  • Trust issues often stem from childhood experiences.
  • Rebuilding trust requires small, consistent actions.
  • Celebrating small wins is crucial for self-belief.
  • Actions speak louder than words in building trust.
  • Start with manageable commitments to regain confidence.
  • Forgive past failures to focus on present actions.
  • Discipline becomes easier when trust is established.